About Me
Hi, I’m Denise — a menopause doula, former nonprofit executive, and woman who knows firsthand what it feels like to hit midlife and think, “WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?!”
For years, I thrived on big goals and long to-do lists. I led organizations, built programs, and was as busy in my personal life as I was at work. I was known among colleagues and friends alike as the “most productive person I know”…until I wasn’t. Like so many women, I found myself exhausted, foggy, achy, annoyed, anxious, and wondering what happened to the energetic version of me who used to feel so capable and alive. The transition from perimenopause to menopause was the wake-up call I didn’t see coming — and the invitation I didn’t know I needed to refocus my life.
As a menopause doula, I help women navigate perimenopause and menopause with clarity, self-compassion, and a sense of agency. My approach blends evidence-based information with the nurturing presence of ritual and reflection — a healthy respect for both science and soul. Through one-on-one sessions, support circles, and ritual retreats, I help women understand their changing bodies, make informed choices about symptom relief, and connect with who they are and who they are beneath the roles they’ve carried…and who they are becoming.
Now that society has finally begun to talk about menopause, it’s almost always as an ending and in clinical or negative terms. Menopause is an ending, in some ways, but it is also an opportunity and a sacred rite of passage — one that calls us to shed old expectations and reclaim our power in new ways. This is YOUR journey to become who you want to be for the next phase of your life. My role is to walk beside you during that journey — to be your compassionate guide through (peri)menopause and beyond — helping you find not just your balance, but your magic.
Values and Philosophy of Care
Your mileage may vary.
Everyone’s menopause journey is different. What works for you may not work for someone else. I do not use cookie cutter approaches or care plans. This is YOUR journey. My work with you will be unique to you.
You are the main character.
Your needs and experience are my priority. That said, we live our lives in context and I’m happy to help educate your circle so they can become part of your support system during this major life change.
You deserve support.
Everyone, regardless of age, race, gender, disability, sexual orientation, or size, deserves support for menopause and/or related symptoms, including trans women, trans men, and anyone with medically or surgically induced menopause.
You are more than your symptoms.
While menopause can bring physically disruptive symptoms, you are not defined by them. Together, we’ll address both the physical and emotional realities — so you can feel grounded, informed, and supported.
I am not a doctor.
I do not give medical advice, but I can help you determine what questions or conversations to bring to your doctor, find a doctor that is well-versed in menopause care, and support you as you process the changes you are experiencing.
I support radical self-love.
Patriarchy undervalues women’s contributions, value to society, and needs. It is a radical act of self-love to show up for yourself despite society telling you to grin and bear it. With support, you can learn to thrive and reinvent yourself in beautiful ways!
Menopause is a sacred threshold.
Menopause is not just a medical event; it’s a profound rite of passage — a portal to a new stage of life. It invites you to shed what no longer fits and reclaim your power and wisdom. It’s my honor to guide you through that transformation.
Credentials
At Seattle Menopause Doula, I combine evidence-based, science-backed information with compassionate, woman-centered care rooted in ancestral and cyclical wisdom that honors this transformational life experience. Here’s a bit about my background and experience.
Certified Menopause Doula Specialist Training Program - International Doula Life Movement
Seven years as a Health Care Assistant, Counselor, and Women’s Health Advocate in women’s clinics primarily focused on supporting women through their experience with abortion
Bachelor of Science in Psychology, University of Florida
Rituals for Menopause Course - Institute for the Study of Birth, Breath, and Death
Holding Space in Women’s Circles and Menopause Workshops Course, Petra Coveney, creator of Menopause Yoga™.
Fifteen years participation in a monthly(-ish) new moon circle, plus personal ritual practice
Coursework in Feminist Theology, Sociology of Religion, Cross-Cultural Psychology
NOTE: In the United States, there aren’t any national or state requirements to become a menopause doula and doulas aren’t licensed medical providers. It’s a self-regulated field, which makes it even more important to choose someone you trust.
Contact Me
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